Compliments to your loved one. Women love romantic and kind men. Guys love cheerful ones.

When all novels without exception end not in a wedding, but in yet another disappointment, a sea of ​​tears and pain, the girl involuntarily thinks: “What’s wrong with me? Why don’t they love me, because my friends have already started families a long time ago, and at 25 (30, 40) years old I still while away my evenings alone?”

The question also naturally arises: “What kind of women do men love? What types of ladies are attractive to the stronger sex?” In our article you will find the answer to this burning question.

1. Girl-child. Some men love childishly naive girls. They consider them cheerful, playful and capable of brightening up their boring lives.

Just don't replay it. A man will be disappointed if he wants to talk to you as a wise and responsible lady, ask for advice or ask for help in a difficult situation. Changing roles and turning from a teenager into a mature lady is not an easy task, but you need to be able to do it.

2. Woman of mystery. Perhaps you think that you need to tell your loved one everything about yourself, to completely open your soul. If you want to live happily ever after, we recommend not to do this. After all, even after being legally married for twenty years, a man will be happy to discover new facets of her personality in his wife. A woman who has become an “open book” ceases to be interesting to her partner. And a little mystery will transform your relationship from bland to bright, about which you can still say “with a little pepper.”

3. Sensual. This girl can be quite unapproachable. She is too proud to immediately agree to indecent proposals. However, she can so casually touch the hand of her companion that he will not be able to sleep at night, imagining her in his wildest fantasies. Men value sensuality very much, and a girl can develop it in herself in order to be popular with the stronger sex.

4. Clean. This is, of course, not about the cleanliness of the hair or the absence of stains on the dress. Purity and unspoiledness - in our time, some men consider these qualities to be a relic of the past, but others, on the contrary, are able to appreciate them. If you are inexperienced in matters of relationships with men, there is no need to be ashamed of it. Perhaps your chosen one will be happy to take on the role of teacher and mentor.

5. Sports. Of course, not all women are destined to become professional athletes. We hasten to reassure you: a man can be delighted even by the amateur level of your tennis game or mountain biking. It’s great if your hobby is not just related to sports, but also coincides with the hobby of your chosen one. By the way, keep in mind that this is a great way to meet people! Common interests will immediately give you something to talk about. And perhaps you will go on your next hike as a married couple.

6. Capricious girl. Light female whims are attractive to a man and encourage him to look after his chosen one: give flowers, take her to a cafe and cinema, and show other signs of attention. But everything should be in moderation. If a capricious girl spends all her money (and an even more unpleasant option - her man’s money) on fashionable new things, this can irritate the guy. Even if his companion looks like a supermodel from the cover of a glossy magazine.

7. Confident. Men consider very attractive those women who love and value themselves, know what they want in this life, and know how to achieve their goals. Just don’t forget: even if you are able to solve a problem of the highest level of complexity on your own, sometimes it’s still worth turning to your man for help. He will feel his own importance and significance for you and will definitely come to your aid.

8. Woman-mommy. Men are attracted to women who act as nurturing as their mothers in many situations. After all, many of them, deep down, continue to remain children and need the care that their mother provided. And, just imagine, they even choose a companion who has the same bottomless blue eyes or brown hair as their mother. True, it is also possible that they are looking for the complete opposite of their mother - this usually happens in the case of a difficult relationship with her.

9. Star. Men are attracted to popular, successful women. However, they do not always have enough courage to approach them to meet them: “She is so beautiful and successful, but who am I?” If you are one of these famous people, you should give the man a sign that you are interested in him. Otherwise, dozens of men may dream about you - and you will suffer from loneliness.

10. A girl with a twist. Defining exactly what this means is not easy. In other words, this very “zest” is called “charisma”. In general terms: such a girl is very charming, unlike everyone else, and her smile is a formidable weapon. And she knows how to use it for its intended purpose, attracting the men she likes.

Men love such women and are ready to perform endless feats for them. After reading this classification, do not rush to fit yourself into any of the listed types. After all, naturalness is another quality that is very attractive to men. Be yourself - and you will definitely meet your love. Sooner or later - but it will happen!

Ask any member of the fair sex what qualities they look for in a partner, and you will find that a sense of humor is almost always in the top five. What do men think about women?

We looked at a ton of surveys and found that for men, a sense of humor is the fourth most important sign of what they look for in a woman. Men rated a sense of humor as the most important quality in a woman. This is even more important than her figure. And that's a fact. After all, there really is something incredibly attractive about a woman who can make you laugh.

Below we have compiled a list that will give you reasons why men find girls with a sense of humor attractive.

1. They are intriguing

Flirting, foreplay to play can incredibly excite a man. Especially when he is new to this business and is not used to it. But if a man associates a woman with ingenuity, then monotony is no longer for him. Women are curious, love to experiment, change clothes and transform themselves. Including in sex, using various costumes for role-playing games, sex toys, or sending stimulating messages via instant messengers. And a man will do everything to have sex with such a woman.

2. Laughter vs Sex

Have you ever noticed what happens to your body when you laugh too hard? You receive a large influx of energy, your breathing quickens, you begin to make sounds that you would not allow yourself in the presence of another person - your body is out of control. But it's nice. Sounds familiar? Because it feels like sex.

3. Laughter = Openness

“A sense of humor does not mean that a woman is frivolous. People who have a truly great sense of humor are often active and willing to take risks and experiment. Such women, as a rule, are very open and have no complexes. Openness means that a person can be free in everything. Including in bed,” says Anna Moderska, a sex consultant and educator who works with the German adult toy manufacturer Fun Factory.

4. Laughter saves even in the most unpleasant situations

No one, not even you, has sex like in the movies. We are human and we have flaws: we can do stupid things, have unfortunate conversations on juicy topics, situations can happen that are beyond our control, and in general we can be clumsy. It happens that in bed everything does not go as planned.

Wouldn't it be better to be with someone who will joke, rather than experience shock when events take an unexpected turn? Laughter won't spoil the mood, awkwardness will.

There's nothing scary in your arms,
Your gaze enchantingly intoxicates me.
Even if I'm loud or reckless,
You are drawn to yourself like a magnet.

Like Everest is sometimes adamant,
Like Atlas is beautiful and strong.
He is so modest in his judgments about himself,
My dear, you are good at everything!

You are an impeccable and exceptional example of unshakable masculinity, high nobility, boundless cordiality and amazing kindness. You are a true ideal, combining captivating tenderness and steely masculine fortitude.

Not typical for men, not typical,
To be so indecently cute!
And thank nature for such a gift,
She mixed everything: beauty, intelligence and breed!

Sharp mind and steady gaze
They give a boost of energy,
Dexterity hidden in movements
Causes admiration

Laughter is fun and simple
Draws you along
And I will say without embellishment:
You man is simply class!

You combine masculinity and tenderness, a strong character and a soft, kind heart. Your eyes are like clear lakes that cannot lie, and your hands are so strong that you cannot be found more reliable in the world!

I want to tell you honestly:
You can handle any mountains,
With you, even the sea is knee-deep.
There is no better man in the entire Universe!

Your deep eyes open look
Charmed all the girls in a row.
Everyone dreams of touching your lips,
To dissolve with a kiss in them.

With you I feel like a goddess,
They dream of entering the doors of heaven.
You are worthy of immeasurable, passionate love,
And you understand this very well!

You are kind and strong. Your muscles are worthy of admiration, and your character is admirable. Being your friend is an enviable reward. Being your girlfriend is the ultimate dream of all beauties.

You, of course, are kindly favored by fate,
She cares for you and cherishes you.
Everyone wants to communicate with you,
And when they see you, the ladies are thrilled.

Everything is under your control: physical education,
And sophisticated books in silence...
And the eyes! And the face! And the figure!
At least write Apollo from you!

You are a wonderful guy: perfect in appearance, and you have excellent spiritual qualities! I am always ready to extend my strong hands to help and shoulder someone else’s misfortune, and your beautiful eyes will not lose sight of the main thing and will make the world a kinder and more beautiful place.

I admire you again
My dear chosen one, my hero,
Catch compliments from me -
A sign of great and devoted love!

Like a bright month by the sea,
Call me quickly to your place,
It's always easy, calm with you,
You are like a ray in my destiny.

It's nice to brighten up the time with you
Hugging, remembering the old movie,
A panacea for all sorrows,
The only one and loved by me!

Your subtle sense of humor has endowed you with genuine charm, your sincere desire to lend your shoulder in difficult times has rewarded you with devoted friends, your ability to listen and hear inexorably attracts many admiring eyes to you, and your ability, while maintaining your dignity, to get out of a difficult situation conquers and blinds weak women’s hearts .

If only I could add Ivan Ilyich’s lips to Ivan Ivanovich’s nose, and take some swagger, like Baltazar Baltazarovich...” (Agafya Tikhonovna. “Marriage.” Gogol).

Almost all men want to please women.

Some don't know how to do it, others are too lazy...

Some tips for the first category.

Young girls and not only like romantic men.

Despite the fact that emancipation is sweeping the planet, and feminists of all stripes are persuading women to give up their original privileges, most women still want to be beautifully looked after, serenaded, and given flowers.

But romance is not only a candlelight dinner, but also a morning call with the words: “Good morning, my love!” Or at least a text message...

Any woman will appreciate it if man remembers their personal red dates. For example, the day of the meeting, the day of the first kiss, the day of declaration of love.

Even the most modest signs of attention will not let love fall asleep in a woman’s heart - one gifted flower, a chocolate bar, tickets to the theater, a boat trip in the summer, or a water bus.

Almost everything women love tenderness, caressing glances, light stroking, fingering.

Even if the time has already come for you to have a close relationship, all the tenderness listed above will make the passion more memorable.

And yet, as scientists have found, women get tired of the monotony of sex much faster than men, and it is desirable that the script of the love game changes from time to time. You can use role-playing games, change the bed to a carpet or bathroom.

And the axiom that women love ears, too, no one has canceled yet.

So in a love relationship with a woman, silence is not gold, but rust that undermines this relationship.

It is not necessary to praise your beloved and sprinkle colorful epithets; it is clear that there are only a few Ciceros among us. But talking about how much you love and want a woman is simply a must.

Women also like caring people men, with whom you feel comfortable and reliable.

Although almost all of us have become independent and even self-sufficient, somewhere in the depths of the subconscious sits a secret desire to be a man like behind a stone wall.

Women- no less owners than men. They want her beloved to belong to her alone.

That's why quarrels happen, the reasons for which men do not see. Well, I looked at someone’s beautiful legs, well, I praised my friend’s hair. What's criminal here?

Nothing. But many women react to this painfully.

To avoid losing trust women, you shouldn’t lie to her about every little thing. Truthfulness generally strengthens relationships. Living with a liar is the same as walking through a minefield...

Women they try to part with the whiner as soon as possible, always complaining about fate and the people around him.

And, as sociologists and psychologists say, the prestige of the tough macho is rapidly declining.

More and more women prefer men who know how not only to build a house, but also to build a nest in it.

Not only the ability to earn money is valued, but also the ability to care for children, and in the future find a common language with older children.

And the most important thing is that a woman looking for man First of all, love, and not money, will always appreciate sincerity and kindness.

No less, but not all women master the art of choosing the right words. And if any compliment is suitable for the fairer sex, even if it resembles rude flattery (this is the history of refined compliments since the times of the Egyptian pharaohs - comparing a woman’s eyes with diamonds, talking about her in superlatives), then with men it is more difficult. Here it is important not to violate or slip into outright bad manners.

So, let's start with what you should never say to a man. First: wussy-pusey, baby bunnies and addresses like “baby” and “hare” should forever disappear from your vocabulary. Secondly, vulgarities and banalities from the “you’re dressed cool” series. Thirdly, questions indicating your lack of knowledge of a particular topic (“Who is Gaddafi?”). Of course, you don’t have to know everything, but if the topics of politics and football are not your thing, then it’s better to remain silent or get away with general phrases with a smile. For example, joke that you prefer to act as an expert in another field.

Passion for astrology and occult sciences can also greatly harm you - according to statistics, only 7% of men believe the predictions of astrologers, and they simply consider women who attach importance to this to be narrow-minded.

The list of taboos includes memories of your ex, criticism of his mother, even though she is wrong three times, the regularly repeated question “Do you love me?”, as well as criticism of his gifts. You should never give negative comments to any positive impulse addressed to you, otherwise, by demanding lilies instead of roses, you risk becoming a woman who is never given flowers.

Criticism of a man in the presence of strangers, the desire not to listen to him, but to speak, as well as an attempt to take the role of a leader from the first dates are the most common mistakes that can cross out any passionate motives in a relationship.

The main thing that unites all men without exception, regardless of status and habits, is confirmation of their own importance. Encouraging him, raising self-esteem, supporting him - this is the direct task of every wise woman. At the same time, it is important not to overpraise the man, so as not to provoke delusions of grandeur.

So what does a man want to hear? What compliments can make him subconsciously reach out to you and feel comfortable and confident with you?

Firstly, any man, even the most infantile, always and in everything seeks confirmation of his strength, an assessment of his “tribal” qualities, therefore even the simplest remarks from the series "You are so strong!", after he masterfully opens a lid that is inaccessible to you or drives a nail in with one blow, they will be very pleasant to him. Even if he doesn’t show it, know that this is so!

Any assessment of his actions, words, gifts must be accompanied by a sincere smile and good old “Honey, that was amazing!”. If we are talking about sex, that’s okay too.

Compliments that emphasize sexuality are another favorite topic for men. "I've never felt so good" or “It was the best sex of my life” are allowed, especially if it is true and if the situation is conducive to such reverent confessions.

Laugh at his jokes. A sense of humor is the main indicator of intelligence, and therefore any man is pleased to seem like a person who can surprise with his wit. “Darling, I laughed until I cried! I can’t forget how you said..."

Use the experience of classics or film masterpieces. One of the best examples of the right compliment was an episode from the film “The Legend of Zorro”, where Catherine Zeta-Jones, saving herself, flattered the villain: “When you are so close, I lose my breath.”. Any man in such a situation loses his will.

The ability to convince someone to do something your way in the format of a compliment is top notch. Try something like: “I don’t insist, you just do it better than others!”